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Emotional Intelligence : Why it can matter more than IQ
Everyone knows that high IQ is no guarantee of success, happiness, or virtue, but until the discoveries of modern brain researchers, theorists could only guess why. Daniel Goleman's fascinating report from the frontiers of psychology and neuroscience offers us startling new insight into our "two minds" -- the rational and the emotional -- and how they together shape our destiny. Beginning deep in the brain, Emotional Intelligence shows us the exact mechanism of an "emotional hijack," when passion overcomes reason. Through vivid examples, Goleman then delineates the crucial skills of emotional intelligence, and shows how they determine our success in relationships and work, and even our physical well-being. What emerges is a crucial new way to talk about being smart. The final chapters reveal the possibilities -- and limits -- of "emotional literary," as it is taught by both parents and educators. The book concludes with a compelling vision of what true emotional intelligence means for us both as individuals and as a society. The message of this eye-opening book is one we must take to heart: the true "bell curve" for a democracy must measure emotional intelligence. Daniel Goleman offers a new vision of excellence and a vital new curriculum for life that can change the future for us and our children.
Price Range: $15.75 - $26.00
 Emotional Intelligence : Why it can matter more than IQ
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| User Reviews |  | Why Don't They Teach This Stuff in School?
rating: 5
If you happened to be raised in an especially well-adjusted home, you may already understand this stuff in a way that a lot of other people don't.
But how many people were raised this beautifully? The nuclear family is no longer a "given". I mentored challenged youth for five years in Big Brothers/Big Sisters, and many of today's children are in no position to understand emotional intelligence on the basis of what is going on at home.
I am the first one to agree that it SHOULD be the parents' responsibility to appropriately raise their children. However, reality is that there are a lot of challenged parents that are in return raising challenged youth, and this cycle generally goes on and on.
The schools would be doing themselves a huge favor if they presented this type of material in an age-appropriate manner.
This book makes a key point that is salient for people of all ages: venting is NOT cathartic. Instead of getting things out of your system, venting perpetuates the subject matter and breathes new life and fire into it, rather like a bellows bringing embers to flame. It is far better to let this type of ember die out than it is to renew its vitality.
Although this book can be rather "textbooky" (on the dry side) it is worth your while to digest it for your own sake, as well as for the benefit of any children that you may be influencing.
Thank you Mr. Goleman for giving this subject matter the analysis and attention it deserves.
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Maybe not as good as some others.....
rating: 3
This book speaks of all the ways in which we can learn to interpret the world and the people in it through emotions. The concepts are very good and can be extremely helpful.
I was so excited to get this book, and read it. But then I was slightly disappointed. Perhaps it was because I had read so many other books prior to reading this one.
I just think there might be other books that either go into each concept a little more in depth, or are a lot more fun to read. Yes, I like it when books flow with inspiration or enjoyment. This one was a little stilted and I just wasn't satisfied after finishing it. I wanted more examples and more meaning behind them.
Some of the concepts were also "old hat" for me - I didn't learn as much as I had hoped. It wasn't as "ground breaking" as advertised. If you are new to this type of psychological understanding, it's a definite "reading list" item.
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Emotional intelligence
rating: 4
Excellent book that really explains empathy and how is not only a good thing to do but a pratical thing. This is definetly a book that everyone should read. It helps in personal life and business.
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Not a light read for sure!
rating: 3
I was recommended this book when I mentioned some very "normal" office behavior. The first few chapters lays a nice foundation on emotional intelligence and where it stems from. I found the later chapters very useful. However, I was not looking for as much depth-this felt more like a text book for a beginner psychologist.Else I would have rated it anywhere between 3 and 4.
This book did explain a lot of nuances I notice in day to day life, stress at work, family interactions and relationship, and yes explains even behavioral patterns in babies- and why baby boys are baby boys and gals..gals.!
Nice read, would recommend this book, but not if you are looking for a light introduction to EQ.
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One of the most insightful "leadership" books out there...
rating: 4
I had read Daniel Goleman's book years ago... and his premise is more relevant now, and continues to be one of the most insightful "leadership" books on the market. How is this so? There are a lot of "management" books but true leadership books are few and far between. Those that truly know the difference between "leadership" and "management" know what I mean. A true leader uses all of his/her skills, experience, insight, empathy, "emotion" to create and lead their teams... and yes showing emotion is what makes a leader human... which is vastly important in today's business climate, as the old stoic, manage from the top floor corner office is now obsolete. "We" all of us are emotional beings... our emotions drive what we do everyday. Daniel Goleman does a great job at illustrating this in his book/s as well as providing a guide to using our emotions to enhance our leadership style and create effective and productive teams. My recommendation is to read this book and decide for yourself.
Dr. Faron Boreham
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